7. You Have Gender Dysphoria
“I take more of a top/giving role because when my partners focus on me, it quickly turns into dysphoria and emotional pain and crying. Which tends to ruin the mood.”
This issue is obviously much more prevalent among queer and transgender folks than straight and cisgender folks. Even cisgender women can have dysphoric feelings about their bodies that impact how comfortable they feel in the bedroom and what roles they’d like to play. For transgender people, it can be even more complicated depending on so many factors including but absolutely not limited to transition status.
8. You Have Kids
“My partner and I had a baby a year ago and it has been difficult to have sex regularly because of exhaustion with being new parents.”
Taking care of children is time-consuming and exhausting. Continue reading “9. Money Is Tight / You’re Working Too Much”